Big Brother

 

I think one of the greatest fears about becoming a mother of two is, "How will the first child react to the new baby?" Jacob being so young when Brayden made his arrival, it was a genuine fear of mine that they would not get along. Mike and I having kids so close together, has always been the plan because we wanted "built-in" best friends. So, as you can see if the kids don't get along from the beginning, then our best friend plan goes out the window!! I should have known that Jacob would make an excellent brother, but I'm sad to say I underestimated his sharing abilities as a 21 month old. However, Jacob is all about Brayden! The first person's name he says when he wakes up in the morning or from a nap is "Brayden." He constantly wants to "pet", kiss, and hold Brayden.  He somewhat views Brayden as his own personal fan...he is always saying "Brayden watch Jacob!" LOL it's pretty adorable. Our morning routine has turned into Jacob reading to Brayden...

I love this photo because Brayden looks so happy to be sitting next to Jacob (probably just gas, but hey I'll take it!)

This photo was the first time Jacob held Brayden. We have been trying not to push Jacob to do things with Brayden, so the jealousy factor wouldn't hit, so to my surprise when he asked to hold him!! This picture makes my heart melt!

Having a second baby has also meant adjustments for my routine... nap time used to be Jacob and I reading to each other, then laying down and falling asleep. The above picture is our new routine. We still read, but in bed now and both Brayden and I lay on the floor and fake fall asleep while Jacob truly falls asleep. I think these two are destined to share rooms because Jacob always wants Brayden to nap with him. In fact, Brayden is probably the best motivator for Jacob to do anything! "Jacob, Brayden wants you to take a bath." "Jacob, Brayden wants you to eat your dinner." "Jacob, Brayden wants you to go night night." Oh how parenting two changes things!!